If you find yourself feeling like there is no hope I suggest you let go and surrender.
In my deepest, darkest days I remember thinking that I didn’t even want to live.
I was so upset for what I didn’t have and living off of credit cards with feeling there
was no end in sight was very difficult for me. I kept beating myself up and asking
“How did I get here?” and “Why am I not where I want to be?”

Looking back at this situation I was in denial that I created that situation and was 100%
responsible for getting myself out of it too. It took what I like to call a MIRACLE and
a huge intention to change things around for me and my business. Not only was my business
suffering but I was in a lousy relationship as well. It definitely took a toll on me mentally, physically,
emotionally, and spiritually.

Nothing changed until…..

I met the person that could help me change. I was holding a deck of intentional cards and shuffling them in my lowest of low points not knowing where I could turn to..I just need a SIGN that everything
was going to be ok..that I could go on with my life and business..to do what I was meant to do in my lifetime. Then there it was…the card that I pulled from the deck was “This is a sign…let all your worries
go as help is on its way!” This was the exact glimmer of hope that I needed to hold on to my dreams.
About a week later I met the person that changed my life and my business forever! It took me about
3 months to transform my business to success ..this is something that I had been working on for years
and couldn’t seem to break through the barriers that were keeping me stuck no matter how many books
I read, how much I meditated..NOTHING worked. Yes, it was my miracle moment and I vowed that
I would help each entrepreneur that came across my path with my teaching and coaching system.

Here’s what I realized:

You can’t change what you are not aware of

You need to affirm that you want change that is for your highest good no matter what it takes.

You need to hire a coach or get into a program because if you have been stuck for this long…what do you think is really going to change?

You need to have a plan of action (this is beyond traditional goal setting..which really is ineffective..you know what I mean because you are saying “I know what to do but I am not doing it.”)

You have to forgive yourself and others so you can move forward.

Focus on CREATING MONEY not debt. Stop thinking about your debts this will only give you more lack.
I know you may owe a lot of money but you need to move past this otherwise you will get stuck in the sea of lack and drown!

You need to have something that drives you every day that will give you the fire and desire to succeed. I had 2 things. One being my intentional ring that I still wear today that says “Be true to your dreams” the other is the song by Journey called “Don’t Stop Believing.”

Heather Picken, is the founder of the Quantum Entrepreneur program that empowers entrepreneurs to release the blocks that are keeping them stuck and attract success in their business.
Next program starts June 30th, visit: www.QEprogram.com

The last time I checked the average person loses their focus 6-10 times per minute.  No wonder why people are having such a difficult time FOCUSING on attracting prosperity and money into their lives.

I have to say when it comes to focus I feel I am pretty good at it but it hasn’t always been easy.  Years ago when I started competing in fitness competitions I realized in order to do well I must live, eat, train, and breathe it.  I became so focused that every moment I felt I was in total alignment.  It started with getting up and working out, then making my food for the day, and training clients.  This routine allowed me to condition my mind, some say like a Jedi in training…LOL.  I felt one with the force of having my mind and body connected. Believe me there were days when I wanted to have a piece of pizza but my Jedi mind would not falter as it stayed on track.  This worked because I went on to win the overall Miss Midwest States, along with placing in the top 5 in many other competitions.

This experience has translated over in my business because I know what it FEELS like to focus. I know what it FEELS like to be in the flow and not deter from the outside forces (can we say The Dark Side..AKA the lack people that are running around).

Here are some Jedi mind tricks to keep you laser focused on manifesting what you want:

1. Imagine yourself like a laser beam being connected to your goal.  Practice this everyday and the more you do, you will find yourself feeling one with the goal.

2. Have a quiet space where you are working.  If you have children make sure you enforce the Jedi rules that you are in training and must not be disturbed.

3. Create a loop of music that is the same song that will help your mind sync and link to the goal or whatever you are working on.  The repetition will create a powerful anchor.

Watch Yoda as he teaches Luke to focus and use the force

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Article by Anisa Aven

I love your site and your devotion to helping others manifest their dreams! I always get so excited when I get your newsletter because I know it will have some helpful hint I need that day!! I have a question about the law of attraction and manifesting. I find that I can easily manifest things I do not have a strong attachment to, but when it comes to big things, like relationships, I am not so lucky.

For years I have been hanging onto a relationship with a guy I believe to be my soul mate, only it has been a rollercoaster of emotions and feelings, some good and some bad. It is heartbreaking to me because I feel like I have all the tools to create the beautiful, romantic soul mate relationship I desire with this person but I can’t seem to get it right. I know I cannot control his feelings but am I wrong to think that the law of attraction can help this situation? I know I should just focus on the relationship I desire instead of the face it comes with, but I feel so strongly attached to this person and want to experience the love I desire with him. Any insight you have would be so much appreciated. Thanks for all you do!

- Erin

Thank you for your kind words, Erin.

When we focus on what we want, what we desire, we send forth an energetic signal that is creative. However, that signal is not vibrationally aligned with what we say we want but instead it is aligned with ‘the longing’ for what we want. Desire is a descending emotion filled with longing, an intense wish for something that we feel separate from.

It’s the experience of separation that prevents us from intentionally creating. As long as we feel separate from the essence of our desire, we vibrate in opposition to it.

“You can’t have what you want.” – God, in A Conversation with God by Neale Donald Walsch

You have to change your ‘wanting’ to ‘accepting’.

The ‘trick’ to re-creating a relationship is to be willing to never have that relationship be that which you say you want. Instead you must be willing to focus on the experience of love and fulfillment that is the essence of your true desire.

This translates to sheer willingness to accept whatever is, as exactly what’s meant to be. It means being willing to let this relationship go; and to be willing to accept it exactly as it is, as perfect in and of itself, even if it never changes.

From this willingness, your thoughts soften and a greater sense of tranquility will prevail. Within this state of mind lies the energetic framework required to inspire and attract the real relationship you want, the essence of your real desire.

The framework I’m referring to is an intention to unconditionally love and accept your partner exactly as they are, filled with the wonder of life as one of God’s perfect Divine souls.

For as you send forth real love and light, you free their inner being to return the love.

From The 72 Names of God, by Yehuda Berg:

“You must offer unconditional love and true light to your friends and even those you see as enemies if you want to receive peace and serenity in your own life. You must see the soul of the other person and connect to it.

The key to this Universal law is the offering of true light and unconditional kindness. The reason is, unconditional love and authentic light immediately penetrate the soul of the other party, awakening love and light in return.”

Now, you’ll notice that I used the word ‘trick’ above because that’s exactly what you’re doing. You are tricking your thoughts into a place of greater vibrational illumination.

Of course, there are times when it’s simply more comfortable to move away from what is than to re-create it. Re-creating a relationship, a job, or a health issue, for example, when we are steeped in the diagnosis of ‘the way that it is’ requires a great deal of courage, attention, intention, time, and faith.

I won’t say that I haven’t taken the easier road at times because I have. When my children’s doctor didn’t believe in naturopathic options, I didn’t try to ‘re-create’ that relationship; I didn’t use the law of attraction to inspire him to come around.

In this situation the path of least resistance was simply finding a doctor that was more aligned with my family’s beliefs.

Long standing relationships will be more challenging to re-create because of their ’story’; because the relationship has so much history and evidence to prove it is the way it is.

My current relationship is the best I’ve ever had. I feel madly in love, cherished, cared for, and passionate about our future. When he’s away, I can’t wait for him to get home.

My brother borrowed him for two weekends in a row to help build a storage shed. (Unfortunately, people are always borrowing my honey because he’s pretty crafty with a hammer.) By the 2nd weekend, I was a little pest calling them both and whining, “When are you going to be done? What about me?!?!”

My brother said, “I didn’t know you were that needy!?!” I just giggled because the truth is I’m the furthest thing from needy but I did miss my honey! This is a very fresh and very good feeling.

It wasn’t always this way, however. My honey and I have a history of power struggles. At one point I threw up my hands and said, “I’m done! I just don’t want this anymore.”

This was the precise moment when I was able to re-create the relationship. To tell you the truth, I thought at the time I’d have to let him go. I thought it would be easier to start over than to re-create this one. And, I was willing.

However, I focused on willingness, acceptance, love, and hope instead.

Then, as if by magic, the relationship turned into the most special love of my life.

Another point I’d like to briefly discuss is one’s attachment to the ‘idea’ about how a relationship should look. Recently a friend emailed that her partner said, “I’m just not good at relationships and marriage just doesn’t suit me.”

She wants marriage and he doesn’t. When resistance to the relationship comes in the form of resistance to the ’structure’ of the relationship, you will want to consider whether it’s the ‘form’ or the ‘love’ that is the most important.

It’s okay to want marriage and if your partner doesn’t want that, you may have to let them go. Or, you may find that it’s easier and more aligned with what you want to let go of the ‘form’ and love the relationship and your mate exactly as they are. Remember, millions of couples are happily (and permanently) coupled without the ‘form’ of marriage.

If you want to re-create a relationship, inspire it to be all that you desire, you must start with that willingness that I mentioned above. Then send forth such a great deal of unconditional love and acceptance that the light from your heart transforms the situation.

At some point there will be a fork in the road; an opportunity to stay because it’s obvious that you can use the power of love to support the relationship you want or an opportunity to let it go. In spite of your love for your mate, it will become obvious that it would be easier to accept them as they are and let them go than to change them (and your thoughts about them).

Your intentional unconditional love and acceptance will either inspire the relationship to new heights of adoration or you will become acutely aware of the relationship’s incapacity to give anymore than it’s already giving.

At this point, you won’t be able to judge them for being the way they are. Instead, you will honor the Divine within them and trust that the Universal spirit is guiding you to a better relationship once you let this one go.

Either way, you will experience a peaceful resolve first. This will be your cue that you are indeed aligned with the wonderful love you desire.

EFT & LOA:

If you know EFT, here are a few set-ups that can support you in obtaining that place of willingness:

Even though, we have too much history for me to imagine something greater,

Even though, I’m afraid to let this relationship go

Even though, I don’t know how to make this relationship work

Even though, I don’t want to accept this relationship as it is because then I feel like I’m settling

IE: I’m afraid of settling.

OE: I would rather fight than to give in.

UE: I don’t want to be alone.

BN: I don’t have what it takes to make this relationship work.

Ch: They don’t love me enough to make this relationship work.

CB: I’m afraid I’ll never get what I want from this relationship.

UA: I want so badly to have a wonderful relationship with this partner; I’m not willing to let this go.

RR: This fear that I will end up alone and starting over.

CC: This pain that I feel when I think about letting this go and the pain I feel when I think about settling with what is.

IE: What if I could have the relationship of my dreams?

OE: What if buy loving unconditionally I could inspire the love I desire?

UE: I choose to be willing to love unconditionally.

BN: I choose to be willing to let this relationship go, if that’s what’s meant to be.

Ch: I choose to be at peace with what is, even if I never get what I want.

CB: What if I felt willing and open to giving and receiving wonderful love.

UA: I’m willing to love and to let go of my attachment to what I want.

RR: I’m willing to accept my partner exactly as they are.

CC: I command love, faith, openness, hopefulness, and peace to fill my heart and I am grateful to now give fully from this place of love.

Learn more about Attracting Love here

by Jim Francis

Many see coincidences as embedded in a higher, transcendental force, a cosmic “glue,” as it were, which binds random events together in a meaningful and coherent pattern. The question has always been: could such a harmonizing principle actually exist?

Or are skeptics right in regarding this as a product of wishful thinking, a consoling myth spawned by the intellectual discomfort and capriciousness of chance?

Mathematician Warren Weaver, in his book, Lady Luck: The Theory of Probability, recounts a fascinating tale of coincidence that stretches our traditional notions of chance to their breaking point.

The story originally appeared in Life magazine. Weaver writes:

All fifteen members of a church choir in Beatrice, Nebraska, due at practice at 7:20, were late on the evening of March 1, 1950. 

The minister and his wife and daughter had one reason (his wife delayed to iron the daughter’s dress); one girl waited to finish a geometry problem; one couldn’t start her car; two lingered to hear the end of an especially exciting radio program; one mother and daughter were late because the mother had to call the daughter twice to wake her from a nap; and so on.

The reasons seemed rather ordinary, but there were ten separate and quite unconnected reasons for the lateness of the fifteen persons. It was rather fortunate that none of the fifteen arrived on time at 7:20, for at 7:25 the church building was destroyed in an explosion.

The members of the choir, Life reported, wondered if their delay was “an act of God.” Weaver calculates the staggering odds against chance for this uncanny event as about one chance in a million.

Coincidences such as these, some say, are almost too purposeful, too orderly, to be a product of random chance, which strains somewhat to accommodate them. But then how do we explain them?

Another definition for SYNCHRONICITY:
Synchronicity at this point can be defined as a series of seemingly unrelated events which are connected via a hidden agenda.

The recent publication of the SUPERSTRING theory indicates that there may well be ten dimensions in existence, not merely the four that ones senses are currently aware of (Length, breadth, width, time).

There is now considerable mathematical proof to indicate that ten dimensions exist.  And most quantum physicists have given serious consideration to this theory.  It would appear that the “hidden agenda” of synchronistic events may be transparent and obvious in one or more of these ten dimensions, but become opaque and difficult to fathom when viewed in our current restricted four dimensions.

And there is now, at last, a small amount of evidence to indicate that when an individual’s subconscious mind-set is modified to encourage positive PK synchronistic events (luck) then synchronistic elements may be set into play which materialistic as PK Luck events in our “real time” dimension.

And conversely, when a person becomes aware of a series of synchronistic events they can use this special knowledge to trigger a burst of luck.

What has been definitely proven, however, is that the mind-set of an individual influences their interaction with the environment, to an extent which can leave a person “stunned” at the positive results.

What I have discovered over the past 4 years is that if I call up a dream program to “induce” synchronistic events in my waking life… then instruct my mind to consciously recognize these events as a synchronistic train… I can usually recognize where they are leading to and be there at the right time and place to take advantage of them.

I have personally had at least a dozen of these recognizable synchronicity trains in the past 3 years and each one has bought me sometimes quite incredible luck. So much so that friends here in Vanuatu keep telling me how lucky I am!!

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Heather Picken is the founder of The Quantum Entrepreneur Program that teaches how to magnetically attract clients using her unique blend of inner and outer magnetizing system for your business. 

Accelerate your income and activate your money mindset for your business.
Learn more The Quantum Entrepreneur Program.

Register for the next class in March; only 25 spots available!

by Heather Picken

There is something called Universal Laws and if you follow them, you will be
amazed how your life will change.

Here are a few that I think you will find interesting.

The Law of Attraction - Most of you have heard about this law.  Essentially, what you
are putting out there with your feelings and thoughts you will attract.  The interesting thing about this law is it says that desire without expectation is merely wishing for something that isn’t going to come true.  If you are wishing for what you want, understand that you are pushing your intention away.  On the flip side, if you keep thinking about what you don’t want you will manifest more of that into your reality.

Tip – Affirm that what you want to attract is already on it’s way.  Always focus
on what you want, not what you don’t want!

The Law of Receiving - In order to get what you want you have to give first. Many people will want to wait and receive before they give which is not using this law correctly, and of course will backfire.

Tip – If you want more, start by tipping extra or putting $1 in the Starbucks
tip jar.

The Law of Sacrifice – If you want to be the best athlete or have a successful business you must work with this law.  Let’s say you want to start a business and
you tell yourself that you don’t have the time; you do not understand that
self mastery and discipline is a must.  Taking the time out to plant the seeds
will eventually yield success but you must sacrifice your time in order to
make if happen. 

Tip – Create the time and space.  Remind yourself how The Law of Sacrifice will
pay off by disciplining yourself.

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How can I succeed?  From Ann

The how’s will always take care of themselves.  When you AFFIRM that you
are successful, that is when you WILL SUCCEED.

Think about these questions that you may have asked yourself:

QUESTION: How will I ever have a successful business?

ANSWER:  When you decide that you want and deserve to be successful.

QUESTION: How come I don’t have the money to get coaching / mentoring?

ANSWER: It’s not what you value right now.  When you value how getting the
money will empower you and take you beyond what you ever imagined, that
is when it will show up.

QUESTION: How come I always attract the wrong relationships? 

ANSWER: Because you are not focusing on what you want.

QUESTION: How can I lose this weight?

ANSWER: When you decide you want to (everything you need will appear).

QUESTION: How come I can’t attract the kinds of clients I want in my business? I
think it’s because of the economy.

ANSWER: If that is what you are choosing to believe then you are right.

You have all the resources available to you.

You have all the answers.

It’s your job to AFFIRM that you will do whatever it takes to be successful and you
are willing to change.

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Heather Picken is the founder of The Quantum Entrepreneur Program that teaches how to magnetically attract clients using her unique blend of inner and outer magnetizing system for your business. 

Accelerate your income and activate your money mindset for your business.
Learn more The Quantum Entrepreneur Program.

Register for the next class in March; only 25 spots are available!

Will I ever stop having money worries? From Kim

You will stop worrying about money when you quit focusing on lack.
I know you may think that is hard to do but it will be the difference in
attracting money and creating lack. 

If you find yourself focusing on how you are going to pay the bills and
it’s keeping you up at night, understand this is NOT serving you.

I use to worry about money all the time and every time I would open
up a bill I found myself becoming highly emotional.  It drained me and
kept me stuck until I realized that what I was doing wasn’t working.

So what can you do?

* You need to affirm that you want to release your worries about debt
  and money.

* Ask yourself this question… ”How can I create more money?” By asking
  yourself that question, your mind will start looking and connecting to a
  solution.

* Get a mentor that can help you. I know what you’re thinking, “But it costs
  money!”  My answer is “How are you going to get unstuck then?”   The
  best investment I ever made to help me rid myself of the money worries
  was to hire a coach or get into a program that showed me how to create
  wealth consciousness.  This allowed me to accelerate my income in just
  a few short months! 

  People do not know how to get out of their own way and will find themselves
  getting deeper in debt and worrying about money because they don’t know
  how to manage and align their energy on a daily basis with regards to money.
  I have my clients’ shift their beliefs about money by doing a 5 minute process
  along with something that I have created called a Quantum Activations that
  they can listen to everyday.  It doesn’t have to take years to get rid of the
  worry – you just need to do something about it! 

* Develop awareness. Your worries about money will NEVER go away unless
  you develop an awareness that your worrying is hurting you, NOT helping you.
  Start affirming that you want to let go of your worry mentality about money

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If you want to release your worry mentality then check out the Quantum Activations
here.

Heather Picken is the founder of The Quantum Entrepreneur Program that
teaches how to magnetically attract clients using her unique blend of inner and
outer magnetizing system for your business. 

Accelerate your income and activate your money mindset for your business.
Learn more at The Quantum Entrepreneur Program.  

Register for the next class in March, only 25 spots are available!

Are you scratching your head wondering how to attract more clients and sales to your business?  This is obviously the most important aspect you need to focus on for your business.  There are 2 things that you need to be working on when attracting clients, building your business, and generating more sales.  These 2 things are having an inner and outer approach.

Inner – This means aligning and managing your energy every day so that you can attract the kinds of clients you want. 

Here are some energy alignment tips:

What are you thinking every day?

Do you find yourself thinking of lack when it comes to your business or prosperity?
What are you feeling?
How do you feel when something in your business is not going the way that you want it
    to?
How do you handle situations in your business when they are not going your way?
Do you have tools that you work with to quickly get you back on track or do you let it
    ruin your day?

Outer – This is the necessary action that you take in order to get more clients.

 Do you have a marketing plan?
It doesn’t matter what your business is, you need an online marketing system along with an offline         
    marketing system.
What do you say to a prospective client or what I like to call a ‘high vibrational connection’?
How you language a conversation is key.  Don’t sell someone on your products or services because that
    will have them quickly running the other way.  Show them that you care!
Do you have a system for your business once you get your clients?
What are you doing on a daily basis to generate leads along with attracting the right kinds of
    clients and customers?

If you have a business or you are even thinking of starting a business these approaches are critical in order to have a successful business no matter what it is.

Heather Picken is founder of The Quantum Entrepreneur Program that teaches how to magnetically attract clients with using her unique blend of inner and outer magnetizing system for your business. 

Want to attract more clients or start a business?
Go to: www.TheSpiritTrainer.com/qscoaching.php 

Register for the next class in March, only 25 spots available!

The fastest way to speed up the process to manifesting what you want can be really
simple but most people are making it harder than it has to be.

Here are three of my ways to manifest faster:

1. You need to get crystal clear on what you want.  I know this may sound simple but I have manifested many things that I didn’t want because I was NOT clear.

For example:

I have a new silver car (too generic)

I have a new silver Mercedes car 2010, that is easily paid for, and
black leather interior (more specific)

From the second example you can see that being clear is key.  However, there are more specifics that you would need to go into when doing this process but you get
the idea.

    2.  Focus on the essence NOT the form. 

I remember years ago when I was in high school, long before I knew my power to attract something, I was focused on attracting a certain guy.  I put out all my energy on him and
it paid off because in a few short months we were dating.   However, it really drained me and he wasn’t a good boyfriend because he would call me at that last minute to go out and he didn’t treat me like I thought I should be treated in a relationship. 

If I were to focus on the essence of attracting someone for my highest good, then I would have attracted someone totally different.   When you focus on the essence you allow the Universe to give that to you – isn’t that what you wanted in the first place?

    3.      Let go of the time that it shows up

When you give yourself strict deadlines when something has to show up, notice how your energy feels.  The fastest way to manifest something is to allow whatever time it needs to show up.  My statement is this, “Everything happens in Divine Timing.”  Saying this to yourself allows you to free up your energy so that it can happen even faster because once you start checking in to see if it showed up you create resistance.

 
If you have a question you want to submit email me at heather@thespirittrainer.com
and I will do my best to add this to the lists of questions I receive every week!

How can I constantly be in the right vibration to attract?

Recently I received this question from one of my subscribers (you send great
questions!).

Being in the right vibration to attract what you want all the time is the key to being
a manifesting genie, as I would like to call it.  I have to tell you I am really good
at manifesting… however, I noticed that when I wasn’t clear about what I wanted
I sent out the right vibration and attracted what I didn’t want.  For example, months
ago when I was ready to get back into the dating scene after a breakup, I told myself
that I just wanted to go out with guys and have fun.  Well, I attracted those guys
within a week, however, they were emotionally unavailable and I realized that was
what I didn’t want.  I had to go back to the drawing board and get really specific.
I have an entire process that I use to do this that I teach, but let me give you a small
example.

Attracting the right relationship / soul mate

He is generous
He is emotionally available
Loves to laugh
Spiritually aligned with me

(you get the picture)

Another thing you want to make sure when being in a constant high vibration to what you want is paying attention to how you are feeling.  Check in with yourself every day to notice this.  For example, if you got a parking ticket, do you curse and say how unfair it was and stay in that place all day?  Or do you acknowledge it and then laugh, understanding the balance in the Universe and that something good is coming your way?  When you stay stuck in your victim mentality it lowers your vibration.

Surround yourself with other high vibratory people.  Do you ever notice that negative
people seem to attract a constant stream of negative events / people to them?  They
are simply putting out the signal to attract these situations and I have also noticed that
they get sick the most.  I can’t remember the last time I was sick! In fact, my mantra is
that I am healthy and whole and immune to being sick.  I decided after years of getting
colds and flus that I didn’t want that to happen anymore.  When anyone was sick around me I would declare “I never get sick…I am immune to it.”  The great thing was that this statement raised my vibration so much that I could be around people that were
sick and it wouldn’t affect my health.

How about raising your vibration with money?  I know you want to hear about that!
Here’s a little trick I have learned in the past.  Anytime you get a bill or something that
you are not thrilled about simply write this:

This is easily paid for and 2x the amount is coming back to me!
I do this all the time and it works like a charm.

Do you want to know if these tips work?

Go ahead and try them for yourself and you will see how your vibration will be
in a constant state of receiving!

If you have a question you want to submit, email me at heather@thespirittrainer.com
and I will do my best to add this to the lists of questions I receive every week!